Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Inheritance

We are studying the Book of Judges with some friends of ours – it is really quite a good study; we are learning so much. The focus of our study is our inheritance in Christ. Just as the Israelites struggled to bring their inheritance into reality, so do we. It is a battle we fight every day – choosing the victory of Christ and eradicating the flesh.
We have been thinking about the concept of inheritance for a long while… what it means in general, what it means to us. One of the most life-changing concepts has been that inheritance is not just things. It is not just a house, land, money, or that fancy ring of Grandma’s being passed down through the generations. It is more than that… it is identity.
Sons used to follow in their father’s footsteps. A farmer’s sons would become farmers, a mason’s son would become masons… all businesses were family businesses. These identities were so central to a person’s being that they became last names – Mr. Cooper made barrels as his family had for generations. Mr. Baker came from a long line of bread makers, and you knew that Mr. Brewster had a grandmother somewhere along the line that made beer the same way that he did.
When a child was born into a family, they received an inheritance of an identity, a trade, a livelihood. If a child was an orphan, that child had lost so much more than a mother and father… he lost his identity, his career, and all means for earning a living. He was more than just all alone, he was a no one. So sad!
This is the world that Christ lived in when He spoke about adoption. When we cry, “Abba, Father!” we are crying out for more than just a divine Father, or a part of the Kingdom of Heaven… we are crying out for a transformation from a no one to, well, one that is made in the image of God. We take on our Heavenly Father’s name, His identity through Christ, and we take on His trade too. We become redeemers, broken-heart menders, friends to the friendless, lovers of the unlovable. We become adopters. We follow in the footsteps of our Father.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

What a Friend!


What a friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
Everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit,
O what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer.
All the delays that we are experiencing getting our homestudy approved are getting me down. We finished over a month ago with the interviews or has it already been more than two months? And just when we get the last piece of paper in, everyone at the adoption agency goes on vacation. Really?!? Grrr. And with the December 3rd deadline fast approaching! If we don't get approval by then, we will have to redo a large portion of our homestudy.

Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful
Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.

I have been rather frantically racking my brain to find some way of staying home with my new son or daughter when they come and maintaining my share of the family income. I cannot stop working or we will have no way to pay all the bills. But I have trouble bearing the thought of finally having my child and spending the majority of my day away from him or her at work. And so far, I can find no way to stay home and still make money... enough money, anyway. Grrr. This will be a trying exercise in faith for me.
Are we weak and heavy laden,
Cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do thy friends despise, forsake thee?
Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In His arms He'll take and shield thee;
Thou wilt find a solace there.

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Adoption and Family


I knew my great grandmothers… or perhaps it would be better to say I met them a couple of times and heard hundreds of stories about them. I remember visiting their houses with beautiful gardens full of tulips and room upon room filled with porcelain dolls. I remember the long beautiful white hair of my Czech babushka and the blue turban my stylish GG (short for great grandmother) used to wear.

This year, I lost both of my grandmothers… one in January and the other in the last couple of weeks. One of the saddest parts of this is that my children will not have the fond memories I do of my greats.  Fortunately, Ian’s grandmothers will be around to meet our son or daughter when he or she comes home from Bulgaria. I really can’t wait for them to meet!

Family is one of those precious things that is always growing! More and more people are included each year through marriages, births, and, like in our case, adoption. We love this way of growing our family because it fulfills God’s purposes as expressed in Psalm 68:6: “God sets the lonely in families.” We are reflecting the heart of God. Adoption is God’s way of growing His family…

You see, both of my grandmothers choose to live life outside of God’s family. I know one called upon Jesus during her last hours and I believed she was saved. I don’t know what happened in the last moments of my other grandmother. But I know that, if she called upon the Name of the Lord, she was saved, adopted into God’s eternal family at that very moment. I will meet her again.

Normally, I try to advocate for the dear children without families. I ask, “Will you adopt?” This time, I have a different question… Will you be adopted? Will you let God grow you into His family?




Monday, November 5, 2012

Making the Heart of God Visable


Orphan Sunday, November 4, 2012




During a time of year when we remember all of the wonderful bounty we have to be thankful for, Orphan Sunday is a time to help those who are fatherless and forgotten in society (but never forgotten or forsaken by the Heavenly Father), who do not even have a family to be thankful for...

Consider adopting a child - it is not as undoable as it may appear.

Consider mentoring the fatherless in your community.

Consider being a foster parent.

Consider helping others adopt, foster, or mentor with financial, prayer, and emotional support.

When you are done considering - take action!

Not a single orphan can be helped by sending warm and happy thoughts their way... we need to let the intent of our hearts direct our hands.

Talk to me if you are thinking of adoption... or fostering... or mentoring.
I can direct you on how to take the first steps.

Talk to me if you would like to help others help the fatherless.

If you have a heart to help us in our adoption, here are some ways to help change an orphan into our son or daughter.

If you have a heart to help any other sort of adoption, fostering, or mentoring, I can connect you to many people who are stepping out in faith in many different ways to reach out to the orphan.

Remember to consider... and then take action! Make the heart of God visible!